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| Oversized Ampersand Note from our Vera Wang On Weddings Album |
Planning
a wedding is often a daunting task, and hopefully after your big day you’re
headed somewhere to relax without a place card or relative in site. Whether you’d
rather get them done before you take off or wait until you’re back in the swing
of things, writing thank you notes to everyone who was thoughtful enough to
give you a gift is a must.
Luckily,
our sister brand, Crane & Co., is the authority on all things stationery
etiquette. Here, they share their etiquette tips on
how to craft the perfect post-wedding
thank you note.
Say
it with style. Thank
you notes should reflect the couple’s aesthetic. The recipient of the note
should know who it’s from even before he/she reads a word. Some couples design
and order personalized couples’ stationery when they order their wedding
invitations, while others may choose to send boxed notes. Either is correct.
Be
gracious in a timely manner. Thank
you notes should be sent out as soon as possible after you receive the gift. One
to two weeks is the sweet spot, as your note should be a thoughtful gesture,
not a reminder to the recipient of what was given.
Give
credit where credit is due. Make
sure to address your thank you note to the person or persons who gave you the
gift. If the gift was signed from your friend and her husband, your note should address both individuals (even if you know
she “did all the work”). Everyone likes to feel appreciated, after all.
Name
drop. Mention
the gift you received by name. It may seem like a small detail, but in an era
of generic, automated emails, it’s nice to receive something that is personalized just for you.
Go
the extra descriptive mile. Everyone
hopes that the gift they give isn’t going to collect dust, destined for the
Goodwill bag when spring cleaning comes around. Prevent such worry with a
sentence or two about how/when/where you might use the gift and how excited you
are to do so.
Let’s
practice, shall we?
Dear
Lindsay and Gabe,
We
agree that we can’t think of a more wonderful package to open than box of gorgeous
champagne glasses, which will surely make our first dinner party as Mr. and
Mrs. that much more special. Hope all is well, and much love to you both.
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